Sunday, September 28, 2008

Amity's Baptism Day

What a sweet day of celebrating the Gospel and God's covenant grace for our family! We echo the words of our assistant pastor, Aaron Morris, "Baptism enacts the gospel for us symbolically. It depicts God’s gracious gift toward the dead and helpless as he breathes life into us through His Spirit. Even though [Amity] will likely not remember [her] own baptism, we will remind [her] of it and [she] will watch it repeatedly as others are baptized. It is our prayer that God will use this sacrament in [her] life and in our own to call us all to ever-growing faith and hope in the Son.
To God alone be the glory!"
This is the video clip of the actual baptism. Amity wasn't sure what to think at first but then she quickly decided that it was a good thing.

This is the entire video (which will most likely only be watched by grandparents!).

What you don't see in the video above is how our pastor walked Amity down the aisle before the congregation, the same congregation that had just taken vows to pray "that this remembered sign will stir in her and in [us] lively Gospel faith and lush Gospel fruit." What a gift! We are so thankful for our church family!
Her proud (and emotional!) daddy!
After the service, Amity was worn out and I got to enjoy some rare snuggle time.
We are also so grateful for our own family that joined us from near and far to celebrate! We filled up several rows and later enjoyed a baked potato and salad lunch at our home. Thank goodness for four crockpots and no blown fuses!

Poppa Barr, Momma Barr, Aaron, Rachel, & Baby Reagan LaShay (coming in 11-08)
Pop Pop and LollyGDaddy & KK
Uncle Bill & Aunt Rita
The Beldings
The Deans
Not pictured are Becky and Eli, who joined us at church, and Brent, Jenni, and Griffin, who joined us via the webcam at home!

Friday, September 19, 2008

First taste of sweet potatoes!

I think these may be an acquired taste!
Are you sure these are good for me?

Our budding opera star!

This has become Amity's favorite way to spend her waketime AND her naptime! What you hear is just a miniscule portion of the melodies that I have heard today. However, I will readily acknowledge that I have loved every note!

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Welcome to the world, Eiley Ember!

Amity got to welcome her newest little cousin, Eiley, this morning at Baylor Hospital. I am sure there is certain mischief, much fun, and sweet memories awaiting these two little girls! Big brother/cousin Eli will have his hands full keeping them in line.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Grover Pride

This was how we announced that we were expecting Amity.This is how we plan to help her remember what her last name is! Thanks to the nurse at Dennis's school for the outfit! It will surely be a family heirloom! :)

Amity is five months old!

We can't believe our little girl is already 5 months old and yet we already can't remember what life was like before her (and don't want to!).
Some of her latest favorites:

Food - 30 ounces/day of Member's Mark formula including an evening supper of oatmeal

Books - She is really beginning to enjoy books and is happy to have practically anything read to her. Some recent favorites are Goodnight Moon (of course) by Margaret Wise Brown, Moo Baa La La La! by Sandra Boynton, Wake Up, Papa Bear! by David Algrim, and Brown Bear, Brown Bear by Bill Martin Jr. and Eric Carle.
Toys - Mortimer the Moose, My Friend Emily doll, rattles, Baby Doll
Waketime Activities - looking at her mobile, laying on her playgym, playing in the exersaucer, sitting in the bumbo, going for a walk in the stroller, reading books, playing on the floor with Mom

Sleep - 3 two hours naps and from 7:00 pm-7:00 am with a dreamfeed at 8:30 pm. The girl loves her sleep!
Laughter & Smiles - We are most likely to get her laughing by giving her zerberts or rubbing our heads against her tummy. The random word or noise will occasionally get her going too. Of course, she always saves her biggest smiles for her Daddy!

Happy Grandparents' Day!

Amity is so blessed! We are thankful for Pop Pop & Lollie, GDaddy & KK, and our adopted Grandpa and Grandma Barr!

Saturday, September 6, 2008

This crazy thing we do...

As everyone knows, I love to save money and I also like to try new and different things (teaching in a bilingual classroom, tutoring a family in Cozumel, going on a kayaking trip the weekend before school started, getting my haircut where I can't understand what's being said, marrying Dennis Grover :), etc.). When we were expecting Amity, I began hearing about different friends and family that were using cloth diapers. Under the tutelage of my friend Rose and my cousin's wife Kendra, we have set up a system that is cheap, easy, and relatively stink-free! Since I have had several people ask about how I do it, I am going to try to provide my own CD (that's "cloth diapering" for those in the know!) tutoring session.


WHAT WE USE:
Diapers - We have 13 BumGenius 3.0 one-size pocket diapers. We purchased 1 from Cotton Babies for $17.95 and 12 on Craig's List for $180 ($15/each). I have also seen these for sale on Diapers.com. The reasons I like BumGenius are:
  • They go on just like disposable diapers with velcro instead of tape for the tabs.

  • They wick the wetness away. The insert will be soaked but the part that is touching the baby feels dry.

  • Using the snaps, they grow in size with the baby.

  • They dry more quickly than an AIO (all in one) diaper because you pull the insert out which allows it to get cleaner and dry faster.

  • They don't stain! I don't know how they do it but it is pretty amazing!

For the first six weeks, we used 10 Kissaluvs fitted diapers and 4 Thirsties covers. I bought my Kissaluvs used and the Thirsties covers new from Bree's Bums. These worked great as well for the newborn stage but I am now a fan of Bum Genius.

Cloth Wipes - Something else I would never have thought of but is now a favorite thing! I found a pack of 30 Wamsutta Baby Washcloths at Tuesday Morning for about $4. We use them as wipes and wash them along with the diapers. I put clean washcloths in a plastic wipes container, pour some water and baby oil over them, and shake. Contrary to what you may assume of a cloth diaperer, I don't want to touch poop and, as a result, I usually go through about six wipes on a dirty diaper change. Since these wipes are reusable, my phobia doesn't break our budget!

Diaper Pail - On the recommendation of my cousins, we use the Blue Penguin Diaper Pail Liner inside the The Container Store 35 lb Pet Food Container. Even with potent formula fed diapers, this combo has done a great job of keeping the smell out of the nursery. However, be warned that when you raise the lid to deposit a diaper, you will be greeted with a strong whiff but it will disappear quickly! :) When it is time for laundry (we wash every 2-3 days), I just pull the liner out of the pail, carry it to the washer, dump out the contents, and throw the liner in too.

Wet Bags - For the first couple of months, we just used large ziploc bags to store dirty diapers in the diaper bag when we were away from home. This works fine. However, there are so many cute wet bags out there so we splurged $16 at Teeni Banini to buy two. There are quite a few websites with patterns for making your own but it is recommended that you use PUL fabric on the inside.

Washing Machine - We are currently using a regular nine-year-old washing machine that has endured the laundry of quite a few roommates, visiting family, one husband, one daughter, and myself. When this one ultimately gives out, we plan to get a HE front loader but these old ones still do the job. We use All Free & Clear detergent and just about half of the recommended amount. While it seems counterintuitive, too much detergent and too many additives will actually make the diapers less sanitary, more smelly, and less able to do their job of absorbing.

We do a short cold cycle to remove the stains, followed by a short hot cycle to sanitize, then a short 2nd rinse to remove the soap residue. For drying, we typically hang dry on our drying rack in our laundry room. If we are in a hurry, we dry the diapers on high heat for 20 minutes. If the diapers become discolored or begin to smell, a few hours of laying in the sun will brighten them back to normal. Once a month, I add a little bleach to the hot cycle to sanitize and freshen the diapers. More washing directions can be found for Bum Genius here and Kissaluvs here.

One last thing, as the diapers begin to contain more, shall we say, SOLIDS, you just dump those into the toilet. There are diaper sprayers available but thus far, we haven't seen the need.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

What are white and sharp and hurt all over?

AMITY'S TWO NEW TEETH! After about two months of hard work, these little teeth have broken the surface. Just eighteen more to go! This picture is the best we could do!

A more modest and much cuter swimsuit edition!

GDaddy and KK gave Amity some swimsuits so she will be ready for lots of fun in the sun next summer. Of course, we had to have a fashion show! As you can see, Amity already knows all of the typical model poses...
Especially this one! :)